FAQ-Fear, Advice#2, Scared CatsThis is the FAQ or Frequently Asked Questions section. I get questions on these topics frequently in my advice service. Scared CatMany times, a cat can become scared, either indoors or outdoors because of a traumatic event. In one case, the cat was chased home by something and even suffered a small nip to the hind leg. This cat was afraid to go outdoors anymore, and the owner did not know why. By figuring out that the cat had been chased by something scary, we were able to help it. This may not be your case, but try to determine if your cat has been injured in any way. Even a patch of fur that's missing can help you to determine this.Be gentle with your cat and don't force it into the desired behaviors. Allow your cat to come to trust again at it's own pace. If you have a dog or other cat that your scared cat is comfortable with, allow them to interact. Real Fear of EverythingIf you have ever seen a cat like this, you know what I mean. The poor thing has been scared out of it's wits and may empty it's bladder at the least provocation. It may hide all the time and only come out to eat and use the litterbox. Sometimes, the cat is comfortable with one person but no-one else. This cat may have been abused or gotten an injury that was very traumatic.Take this cat in stages. First, use treats to draw the cat out. When the cat is comfortable with one person, switch to another person. Always speak in soothing tones in the cat's chosen hiding room. If you are male and have a deep or booming voice, you need to be especially careful. Usually women do better with cats because their voices are higher and softer. Speak in a low volume and coax the cat with treats. Some cats prefer men, so the opposite may be true. Children need to be reminded to move slowly and be very gentle with the cat. Raucous laughter can scare the cat. Eventually, your cat will come to love the sound of laughter and even perform antics which cause you to laugh. Your cat may slowly come out of the room and begin to explore the rest of the house. Allow the cat to do so at it's own pace and remember to move slowly and talk softly while the cat is doing this. There is no time frame for this. Each cat's trauma is different. These cats have a very long memory for hurt, but also for good things. The more good things you can heap on those hurts, the better. You can begin bonding activities by playing with your cat. Use a Tickler Wand and play with your cat. Cuddle when your cat is done playing. To the Top of FAQ-Fear advice#2 scared cats
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